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  • Restoring flows – Magic Adhesions away!

    Any abdominal operation from other cause . .

    Liberation

    C -Section is a MAJOR BELLY OPERATION.

    Did you also know?

    The newly cut open uterus is placed on the belly so it can be stitched up again.
    Leaving the uterus COLD and traumatised.

    Body may retaliate – by holding her dear – and make so much more drama as the years go by

    Eventually . . .  . It may look like a wee scar – but what tissues (and if you know acupuncture – meridians) are cut through? What repair work has been done to allow the continuation of flows – not only of the Qi but all layers of connective tissue were invaded, all lymph is likely to be congested and all adhesions will have grown to attempt to hold the body more together.

    What pregnancy does to the inner organs .. 

    This is normal – over time.

    As is baby descending through and being born.
    In the surgical removal, uterus is cut through, baby removed, uterus taken out and popped on the belly to be stitched up again . .

    ADHESIONS very likely  .

    At a time when she hopefully is not having to look after herself – but is taken care of. In the modern world – likely not. Making all the efforts to heal after the birth and make more blood to make the food to allow bub to thrive.

    Baby – ‘safely’ here

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    During a surgical birth the skin in incised down to the muscle. Muscle is opened and bladder is carefully dissected and pulled into a position of safety to ensure that it is left intact. (Hopefully there is not too many past local trauma/adhesions – possibly from endometriosis or past C sections or other surgery).

    The surgeon will make a lateral low incision on the uterus and retract into the uterus to rupture the amniotic sac and rescue the baby. Once baby is out the placenta is removed, the uterus is irrigated with saline and pulled out of the pelvis than placed on the woman’s abdomen for repair.

    Think about what happens when you cut an apple into slices and allow it to sit on the bench/kitchen counter……it becomes brown due to oxidation which is exposure to room air. This happens when our internal organs become exposed to the outside. Our organs are perfectly compact in to our body and when opened and exposed the self protective healing mechanism is for the body to make scar tissue. C-section is no exception.

    Typically post major surgery we are instructed to seek out therapy for rehabilitation. No physician is telling women to seek out post C-section therapy until symptoms of obstruction and immobility ensue and even then the C-section scar may not be looked at as problematic.  Furthermore . . ..

    After this major abdominal surgery, (and possible inner work to accept the new reality) instead of at least 6 weeks rest – she has a new baby to love and make milk for: she goes home to getting on with life – and up and down, feeding and changing baby: looking after herself last.

    Although mum needed at least 2 weeks total bed rest after this major belly surgery it is often not possible. Even one week in the bed, one week on the bed, one week around the bed – would allow healing .

    Physically the outside may all LOOK healed . .

    Ultimately, scar mobilization promotes collagen remodeling, which increases pliability of the tissues and reduces uncomfortable sensations, such as itching or sensitivity. This may last forever – until you do something about it.

    Ideally C-section scar mobilization starts early in the healing process. If we were only doing the physical aspects – maybe starting six to eight weeks after the procedure. Why?  Early intervention is ideal as the tissues will respond quickest during this post natal period. I find using my ways that a week after birth (seeing you at home) is often the beginning of rapid healing.

    The Gentling Way using dedicated moves, lymph clearing, needling and the traditional ways of birth repair all added into.allow the body to take the time needed to repair to do it well. If not given this new set of healing instructions, massive adhesions may result.

    The body renews itself and remodels scar tissue constantly. Your tissues are being replaced with new tissues all the time, just at a much slower rate when scar tissue is older. We can hasten this as we allow much more flows of Qi, Blood and lymph to and from the past traumatised area. The adhesions can begin to constrict normal movement.

    Let us liberate oursleves FIRST!

    Left alone. . .

    Here is what happens next  ..

    If we are lucky:

    On the surface – we look like . .

    LEFT2 C sections – 3 years apart – younger one a year ago  RIGHT . 4 sections over 20 years  last 2 years fresh.

    BUT we are scarred more than we think – the adhesions underneath are there.

    As these adhesions take their toll, puckering can happen underneath the scar was that her uterus was adherent to her bladder and completely immobilizing all pelvic structures.

    This is typical due to the sheer nature of what a C-section entails. In addition, the scar may cause a slight postural change, a sort of “pulling forward” that along with a decrease in the support of the back from the abdominal muscles could result in back pain. And a lack of stability – also possibly the loss of core strength. But the possible consequences don’t stop there. The scarring can cause the adjacent muscles to develop trigger points that refer pain to areas like the clitoris or urethra. In addition, the adjacent connective tissue can become restricted also causing pain. Lastly, the scarring can irritate superficial nerves in the area of the scar.

    What’s more, the round ligament that attaches from the sides of the uterus to the labia can be caught in scar tissue after a C-section because the incision is also right over the area where the round ligament crosses the pelvic brim. If this happens, a woman can experience labial pain, especially with transitional movements like going from a seated position to a standing position. Another symptom I’ve seen of those women who have had C-sections is that they may have issues with lower digestion such as irritable bowel syndrome or constipation. This occurs because of the tightening created by the scar tissue pulls within the abdominal cavity and thus affects the organs.

    Post C-section issues can be mild to serious in which more surgery would be the only recommendation. What would require more surgery you ask? More adhesions . .

    10-50 years post C-section maybe severe abdominal pain. CT scan reveals scar tissue adherent to the abdominal wall which requires surgery to remove it or the intestinal loop may become completely obstructed. While few and far between it is still not unlikely and this scenario can be life threatening if left untreated. Bowel resection to remove invasive scar tissue is often indicated.

    I have worked with countless women over my 40 years of working with what is left behind. So often the rest of life is marked by this one intervention. Regardless of whether it was life saving for mum and baby – the surgery leaves residue. Often never connected – as the problems start up in other locations. Especially chronic and often debilitating neck pain/inflexibility.

    Good News!

    The problems caused by a C-section scar can be treated with the process I have developed. Called The Gentling Way. Why? Far too much has been forced onto a body. Time to heal. So how do we address a C-section scar?

    Most problems caused by C-section scarring can be improved or corrected altogether by making the scar more flexible by manipulating the scar tissue. The more scar tissue is moved, the softer and more similar to the tissue around it it becomes. This reduces tightness and breaks up adhesions (an “adhesion” occurs when scar tissue attaches to a nearby structure). Over the years my hands-on approach as part of the acupuncture service I have always given, has allowed me to explore many complementary healing systems.

    HOW?

    Using a combination of modalities, the way to undo an array of internal blockages using energy and more physical means is here. In the Gentling Way we many home based therapies as well as what we can do in each session. You will use traditional women’s healing ways including the use of, castor oil packs and gentle external touch therapies as part of the block of sessions we will do together. Expect a miracle! 

    Closer together is best – no more than a week in between – and often daily (if you are traveling from afar). Undoing what I call ‘Stuck Belly Blood’ all aspects of your being are worked on simultaneously. By discharging the energy blockages in combination with the physical congestion, magic happens. Be it a straighter body, the loss of back aching and sciatica, period health restoration and the return of normal sexual sensations: all is possible. When a scar is awoken, the body will instantly change – it is astonishing to feel.

    We check –  before and after this work. Your body responds immediately as we reroute the stuck trauma. Physically it will lay down the fibers of the scar tissue with more organization, and in a similar alignment to the tissues around it. This results in the scar blending in better and behaving more like normal tissue.

    Instead of looking like these

        

    Hate what this has done to you?

    Can’t stand the touch of even underwear on your skin?
    Too ashamed to wear what you could before?

    What to do?

    Holistic multi modality transformative energy body work. As part of the external gyno-visceral manipulation possible with The Gentling Way – you may discover a body you forgot that you had!

    Advanced channel moves

    Acupuncture plus . .

    The adhesions holding everything stuck will let go Using my Stuck Belly Blood protocol.

    First – we attend to what allows this to be set up so all QI flows unimpeded. .

    Everyone leaves feeling taller, emptier and lighter – as the space is released.

  • R.I.C.E.

    WHOSE LIFE IS IT?

    Who is seeking help?
    Why?

    Boundaries/assumptions

    When we start something we may not be totally clear

    Here is some assistance with this – for both practitioners and those who seek their help.

    We are not aware of what may lie beneath.

    Here I seek to clarify

    In Light

    • Responsibilities
    • Intention
    • Commitment
    • Empowerment

    1 – Responsibilities

    All need to be made aware (as we are) that it is THEIR life that we are interfacing with. We can have no idea what lead them to this life, this place – and this now.

    We – the facilitator of change – will provide the most gentle, and the most respectful way in that we can. We are not aware of what may be released. It may be gentle and it may be a surprise. Within what we can control, all will be peaceful. All will be safe within what we CAN control.

    Often life throws up the unexpected. Please expect this. Go with Grace . . . Lightful always

    WHOSE LIFE IS IT?


    2 – Intention

    We all intend to do good. There is no malice here. What is blocking the body from its blueprint may have been deeply embedded for a good reason. From whatever time through how ever many ones to get to this now. Across generations and dimensions.

    The Gentling Way allows the body to take back its sovereignty.

    The personality may not feel/be comfortable. The body is the final decider. It is within its temple we live within. The personality is not ‘in charge’ ultimately. It may have felt that it was all through its choice – and it may be a big distraction/ distress to many to have to let this idea of ‘control’ go.

    The soul force can return – in a new form to live out the intended – it can/will come back again. The appointed task this time around has been set in motion. They are on a journey – and we are their next stepping stone. 


    3 – Commitment

    How much is the change desired by the one who finds you? Desperation leads people to seek help. WE need to make shifts in our own lives.
    When the body has finally said ENOUGH! (See also all that Dr Gabor Mate has online – start here ‘When the Body Says No’ – we may listen.
    Whatever ‘instructions’ (see below) that are blocking this are now the issue – not the ‘problem’ that the person is seeking help with.  
    Maybe read this from the left to the right, then back, RIGHT to the left?

    The desire to be different is a great driver of results – they may do as asked and live differently – as they know what is ahead if they do not. Nebulously wanting to, trying to hand over the job will not give the best, if any lasting results. This means the worker will /can only do what is possible – given that we are not living in the life or the body of the one who feels currently broken to ask for assistance.


    4 – Empowerment

    Your life Your choices. You walk your path
    Want to win a marathon? Need more than to show up at the right time in the right gear .. .

    2022 onwards
    Not sure about this new world? None of us are.
    My new rider – as T and C
    Now is the only moment you have
    Breathe it well

  • Gentling Way Self Care [Brisbane]

    Date: 1st – 2nd December 2018

    Time: 09:00 – 17:00 both days

    Venue: 10 Kitchener St, Coorparoo Qld 4151

     

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  • Gentling Way Self Care [NYC]

    • NYC 24-26th October 2018

    Download the flyer

    NOTE:
    Gentling Way Self Care is a pre requisite for the Living Ligaments series
    see here for more.

    Investment – $US 500

  • Heather Bruce

    How did I cope when all around me . .

    (What kept me going)
    Likely an awareness that this is not all there is and I can’t guarantee that things could be vastly worse if I pretended I could get away with NOT BEING GOOD – I wonder if this is why kids are sent to Sunday School?
    Seems to be a hard habit to break.

    Never believed that being here was all there was. 

    Not a matter of wake up/do stuff/ go to bed. .

    • Having already tried to kill myself at 3+ years old, I always knew I was here for the long haul.
      (I got rescued)
    • To just get on with it.

    Just knew I was to.
    Always different

    • Never accepted as being the same.
      Or being accepted.
      Or being part of what was happening.
      Always a loner.

    My own company was safer.
    Worked things out for myself.

    Always the right answer popped in.

    • Always knew to be the aligned one. To hold the space
    • Things just happened – now looking back – always the right place and at the right time.
    • Suspect that I was placed and was looked after.
    • Belief that I was OK – Pollyanna.
    • Always rise to the top
    • Always kept going. (No ‘give up ‘ button).

    Always aligned to what to do

    A strong sense of self . .

    • Not ego – but of being.
      Always headed off in the other direction to where anyone else was.
    • Not to look for answers from others.
      or in being the same
    • Keep spiritual nose clean – do unto others.
      Some idea of ‘karma’ and of needing to be clear of drugs/alcohol/ouija boards etc,
    • Nature – always with plants and in forests and growing things.
      Gardening has always kept me together.
    • Read a lot. Avid reader – of apparently ‘out there’ info.
    • Learning new things
    • Asking ‘odd’ questions and finding out ‘why?’ Doing good/being helpful . . Being of service

    Specifically
    When being Skye’s mum

    • When younger – having to – for the kids – to supply them with stability.
    • Deep sense of gratitude that all the support was in place – not in the physical necessarily.
    • Found the ways and knew they were the right ones when they happened
    • Asked for (and saw) help when it came.
    • Enough clarity to be discerning.

    Since then

    • Antakarana meditation – (I have no idea how anyone copes being here without that)
    • Aura Soma and being present and alert/conscious.

    Blessed Be

     

    The usual looking CV . . .

    See it here
    http://thelifealignmentcentre.com/heathers-journey/

    Basically a travel through starting in formal education in 1973

    in Sociology Education and Psychology and deviating into acupuncture
    Acupuncture training ongoing. Whilst from 1981 designing and writing courses all levels.

    Herbalism – Western and vibrational and eventually Chinese

    Natural living – inspired by being a mum.

    Touch therapies –

    Energy healing
    Soul healing
    Integrating self – undoing life residue – via experiential workshops.

    The beginning of your transformation may well be in the Self Care package.
    The next step?
    Self Discovery . . .
    If you are keen and an energy healer /acupuncture worker –

    the Transformative Healing package may be your start (it includes the above).

     

     

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  • Training Schedule 2018/2019

    ADVANCED CHANNEL APPLICATIONS

     

    Beyond/besides needles for the acupuncture practitioner. . .

    A senior acupuncture mentor/course designer and practical multi modality clinician’s ways

    through the modern mire.

    A pathway go deeply release what is ready to be shed – in your own life. Into health yourself.

    PLEASE NOTE – you do NOT need to be a ‘health care professional’ in the bio medically trained ways – as this is all about LIFE not death avoidance. Yang Sheng – Nourishing Life

    All starts with Self Care

    Your life is in your hands

    Regardless of what style or modality we use – we MUST look after ourselves. Also as a role model. So many courses seem to work on the surface – all in the mind. Yet when we ignore that we ourselves have been called – often deeply – and to ensure we follow through – often with more apparent wounds than those who seek our help. Still wondering why?

    We may need by now some personal solace and be offered an alternative way of modeling the healing. As the ones to do the work we can also get to experience what we expect those seeking us.

    Generally all starts with online.
    The Gentling Way Self Care course as a 2 day experiential assumes that you have done the two online courses – at least in part – Self Care and Self Discovery.

    The practicals – can begin with the pelvic opening or the Living Ligaments – ideally at least one weekend practical is done to attend these.

     

    Practical Course Explanations:

    Opening the Pelvis work:

    All of these cover the same basic moves.
    Allowing better Qi and lymph flow.

    2 day workshop hands-on to experience how we can radically and subtly change all that was before – the congestion/stagnations of Qi and lymph thus blood flows ease under your hands. Anyone can. Must have completed the pre course online component to arrive to ensure we deeply delve into how, and what to do in as many cases as possible – so YOU understand how simple pelvic opening to life flows is

    There are 4 more in this series – and will be offered in 2019

    1 – Painless Pregnancy and Easy Birthing

    If women are well and well supported they are capable of being healthy happy bonded mums with robust resilient children – no medical needed as nature and life expect no less than this.

    2 – Girls to Women Easy Puberty/Easy Periods/Easy Sexuality/Easy Fertility

    3 – Broken Bellies  – all incidents/accidents /operation recovery

    4 – Mature women’s business

    5 – Men Matter

     

    GW SC – Gentling Way Self Care – 2 day experiential

    Working on/with yourself within a group of loving supportive participants who are on a similar journey. Reframe all that was ‘The Story’ onto the reality of being called and being here on this planet at this time  and together with like minded souls . . . out of reactivity from personality and back aligned to Self.

    We can activate alignment in many ways .

    None more powerful than through our own Shen filled heartful hands.

    Working on others.


    Living LIgaments series

    LLI – Living Ligaments 1:

    3 day experiential & hands-on.

    A journey into hands on repairing of the torsion, the breakages and the past fractures in flows from a more physical level – the ligaments need their own healing journey – through what causes them to NOT be supple – NOT be amenable to being shown where their blueprint would have them. NOT forcing – The Gentling Way is all about releasing what is stuck What Lies Beneath. In its own time. Deep emotional/spiritual healing as part of the structural realignments instantly possible.

    Covers –

    Basic Suspensory ligamental work, allowing the uterus to return to optimal position

    • Mal positioned uteri, missing organs and how to undo adhesions,
    • Lymph and blood flow
    • Gyno visceral corrections, inspired through the Maya and the Mercier work.
    • Basis diastasis and belly calming

    Living Ligaments II (Releasing Life)

    3 day experiential – and hands-on

    Restoring normal where it may never have been.

    Working on others. The progression follows as you become proficient at the level you are working with.

    Covers

    • Prostate correction,
    • diastasis
    • prolapses,
    • most pelvic congestion and
    • sacral problems

    Living Ligaments III (Opening the Baby Gate)

    3 day experiential – and hands-on

    Working on others.

    The progression follows as you become proficient at the level you are working with.

     

    Wondering where to start?

    HERE

    The Transformative Healing package includes the entry into Pelvic Opening – whatever version being presented – they have different support information – all with the same moves
    For this you get an instant NEW focus on your job – you can be working VERY differently in anyone who has a stuck pelvis – and improve their sexuality/pain / plus all gyne/pelvic and urinary plus all lower back and leg circulation issues. . . everything really . .

    Let me know if this is something that calls you.
    We are a small tribe and will enrich the larger we get . .

     

     

    YOU???

    Not sure?

    You do know that you want more.

    You do know that you LOVE dealing with people and only feel alive when doing so
    BUT you may (as I am ) be wearing out?
    need a change?

    Burnt out is not the answer – changing tack is . .
    We who have worked off our apprenticeship in whatever form (and being a mum is one of these) may wish to become the elders

     

    Here is the total trajectory. . Heather’s Gentling Way-tota

    Teaching Face to Face is here:

    Maybe

    Contact me?

     

     

  • One session and its aftermath . . .

    Let me allow me to introduce myself my name is Amanda and I have studied Bowen Technique,Body Harmony, some Counseling, Crystal Healing, The Tarot, Singing, Composition Music, RAD Ballet, Bush Flower Essences with Ian White, Success WithOut Sabotage (the late Patrick Collard) and other gentle massage and until recently I had never studied with Heather.

    Today I encountered Heather here in my home working with me on my Stuck Liver Qi and then
    working her magical Heather’s Gentling ways – oh wow I won’t say don’t get me started – coz actually please get me started so we can not only save some lives with her amazing work – we can make some lives – conscious conception and conscious living and healing is actually a big part of what this Lady is about!

    Taking out what is not supposed to be there-all the toxins and all the cold in my stomach and other area of my body has allowed me for the first time in a lifetime to start really using the magnesium, good food and water and supplements and herbs.

    It really did not matter what I was taking up until now as my gut was not working properly-now it has a fighting and functional chance thank to Heather! and her Gentling Ways!

    The blood flow through my back is happening in way I have not experienced in years – I can feel the energy all the way around to my uterus and indeed through to my vulva – what a wonderful feeling that is for me.I have had Lyme disease for many years and more recently contracted babesia and I have put on a lot of weight. I have not felt energy flow throw my body like that in way
    too long! My heels are making contact with the ground without pain and more of the skin is grounding in my foot when I walk.

    A feeling of bliss overcame me during the session and my jaw has completely let go. I have had TMJ since I was fifteen and now I am fifty -three – I have awoken yet again with a relaxed jaw! The scar where my appendix was feels so much better there is not the painful pull on it anymore.The muscles in my face are so relaxed and I actually began laughing with joy – a joy I had nor felt in such a long time. My sacrum is feeling wonderful and I lie flat with more of my lower back smooth. I fee

    l like dancing again – I feel that my body could do this again!

    The tension that is always in my neck has gone.

    I am very grateful to Heather and I am grateful to Heather’s husband Duncan too

    as he is an incredible support to this lady in so many ways!